
April: How did the two of you meet?
Nai: We met online, actually, back in December 2005. But our relationship was strictly friendly, though slightly flirtatious on Draculina's side, until we met in person.
April: When did you realize it was love?
Nai: I am not entirely proud of this fact, but I fell in love with Azahar the very first time I kissed her... which also happened to be the first day I met her in person. We were both quite angry with each other at the time, and our first kiss was fueled with more than one kind of passion. The anger disappeared quickly, though, and I was surprised when it was replaced by something quite different. But I believe she fell in love with me somewhat before that. Didn't you, Azahar?
Drac: It's very difficult to pinpoint it. I found myself delighted at many of the stories I saw about Tournai and the comments he made online in response to others. Seeing him hit Hiro with a newspaper was a particular favorite. Not long after that, I realized I was going to the site daily to look for new stories or to look for other comments about and from him. This was a very new situation for me - to be so interested on an on-going basis in someone other than myself or my sister. Truth to tell, I was a bit confused about this development. Then, when he became romantically involved with someone else, I was overwhelmed by a great sense of sadness and a pain in my chest - which I suddenly realized was my heart - and it was breaking. I believe that was when I realized what I felt was indeed love, but I am not certain when I first felt it.
April:I know that love cannot truly be defined, but can you tell me what love is to you?
Drac: It's the sound of Nai's voice, the look in his eyes when we are intimate. It's the knowledge that his happiness is as important to me as my own. It's the feeling of complete and total contentment when I am with him and the joy that engulfs me when I first see him after we have been apart. It's treasuring each letter that he writes to me, looking at his picture when we are separated, and knowing that no one can ever make me as happy as he does.
Nai: You are too kind, Azahar my dear. I can only add one thing to what she has said. To me, the proof of her love is her acceptance of me just as I am.
April: Was there ever a moment you thought it might not work?
Drac: Oh yes, like any couple, we have had a few obstacles to overcome. The fact that I have certain non-human characteristics was, and is, a big one. We have a few traits in common that serve to cause a bit of sparks to fly at times - both of us can be a bit vain, a tad subborn and somewhat hot-headed. Even through these trials though, it's never occurred to me to give up trying to make our relationship work.
Nai: It does seem strange that the things we have in common often cause conflict between us, but instead of making us think we should part, they tend to keep us together. I believe it is because both of us are curious to see what will happen next.
April: Nai, What were your biggest fears about becoming romantically involved with the amazing Draculina?
Nai: Obviously I was apprehensive because she is, after all, a vampiress. Draculina is already virtually immortal because she is Elven, but I have no desire whatsoever to become immortal myself as a true vampire. I would not consider such a life to be fulfilling or worthwhile, and would most likely detest it. However... she and I have discussed it at great length, and we have determined that it is entirely possible for us to be happy together. Her vampire characteristics have been minimized by the quick lifesaving methods performed by her sister Avenyon, and Draculina also has no desire to coax me, willingly or otherwise, to join the ranks of the undead.
April: Drac, When did you realize it was the right time?
Drac: Now this IS a difficult question. Nai has the kind of eyes that can muddle one's thinking and cause one's mind to forget what one's personal belief system defines as acceptable behavior. If you don't mind, I think it's best to skip this question as it is important that Tournai's head not become seriously enlarged as a result of reading this particular answer.
Nai: I had no idea I had this effect on you. We'll have to discuss it further... preferably in private.
April: I know every couple has moments where things look grim. Have you had one of these moments, and what helped you get passed that moment to grow stronger?
Drac: Tournai and I are lucky in that neither of us are shy about speaking what is on our minds. With grim moments that are outlined above, we have spent countless hours discussing our concerns and working to resolve them. A nice romp has also sometimes been of some assistance in resolving grim moments.
Nai: Yes, communication, both verbal and non-verbal, has never been a problem with us.
April: Nai, Is there something special about Drac that makes you melt?
Nai: Her enthusiasm. Undoubtedly. I would go into more detail, but I do believe this is a family oriented board.
April: I know men can be difficult, but what are the qualities about Nai that make him right for you?
Drac: This one caused me to laugh. CAN be difficult? Tournai can be the personification of difficult - taciturn, cranky, pig-headed and obtuse. And I could not have him any other way. A lesser man would bore me to tears. It gives me great pleasure to try to coax and cajole him into a more cheerful mood - a soft kiss on the corner of his mouth, on his eyelids, on his ear - can sometimes be effective.
Nai: I am not obtuse. But I do agree that Draculina can be very persuasive.
April:Can you tell us about your most romantic moment?
Nai: Er... no.
Drac: I will recount for you a particularly memorable moment we had. After we first met, and after our rather dramatic first encounter, we took a short journey to a beautiful ranch not far from my home. We spent the morning and early afternoon together, walking, talking, and simply growing accustomed to each other's physical presences. I felt so very comfortable with Tournai, as if I had been waiting my entire life for him to arrive. I had never felt so content and at ease before. His arms held me as if they were shaped and made only to hold me. I cannot think of anything more romantic.
April: Is there any advice the two of you have for new couples, or for those that have their eye on someone special?
Nai: I would say, do not try to change the other person to suit you. They must change of their own accord, if at all, and do not be surprised if one day they do so, simply for you. Along those same lines, be true to your own ideals and do not compromise your beliefs. It is not impossible to find someone who shares them.
Drac: Yes, I do have some advice on this subject, but lack of space prevents me from sharing all that I would like to share. Let me just say that a sense of timing is important and she who hesitates is lost. Hot men do not stay available long if they have even the minimal amount of civilized attributes. Tournai slipped through my fingers initially because I just was not paying attention. Painful lesson learned, I did not hesitate when another opportunity arose to capture his attention. If you see a guy that seems special to you - chase him until he catches you, girls.